"I understand the special bond between Mother and child. I had that bond with my mother. The system should always be SLIGHTLY in favor of the mom because there is no connection like it. Unfortunately it is DOMINANTLY in favor of the mom."

I understand the special bond between Mother and child. I had that bond with my mother. The system should always be SLIGHTLY in favor of the mom because there is no connection like it. Unfortunately it is dominantly in favor of the mom. So much that if you are a really good dad and you have a really good chance of winning custody, the government will set you up, defame you and harass you to establish a false narrative of you before they allow you to win majority or full custody. Statistics show that Dad"s play an enormous factor in the odds of a child being successful later in life. Our children need the courts to be fair. Our children need BOTH parents who respect their children enough to put them ahead of themselves.

How many Dads have an order of protection on them? 

How many Moms have an order of protection on them? 

The answers to those questions will prove discrimination and I don’t even need to dig up that evidence to state that with full confidence. 

Four or five times the mother threatened to call the cops on me in front of the child for things that weren’t a violation. Another big reason the child knew what she was really trying to do: separate us by getting his Dad arrested. Hello parental alienation! Hello mental child abuse! The real kinds. This placed fear in my child that he could lose me. No one seems to care about that though. Only the kind that involves the Dad as the bad guy, even if it’s fake. This shows the power of the order of protection and how it is being used as a tool for women and government to control men and Dads. An order of protection that had false allegations in it was not only assisted , it was coached and PUSHED THROUGH WITH URGENCY!

The fear placed in my child has been doubled because of the court pushing through a temporary order where my son and I are separated. 

When my son went back with his mom after the first visitation, he told me he left his hoodie at my mom’s house. I told him it was ok , I’ll get it back to him. Then he whispered in my ear , “we should get it so that my Mom doesn’t try to get you arrested again”. 

After another visitation, my son gave me his favorite toy at the time and said, “I want you to keep this so that you won’t forget about me and so you will remember to fight for me “. Later I told him that I would never forget about him. He said he knew that but that he meant it like he wanted me to remember to fight , but to also fight harder to get him back. THESE ARE THE KINDS OF THE THINGS THE COURT DOESN’T WANT TO BE SAID ON RECORD. They know of these things, but they never bring them up. They just continue with the false narrative of brain washing. These are things my son has said to me for years! And thanks to the AFC forcing visitation with a supervised visitor appointed by the mother, there was a witness! The witness spoke to me about it later, calling it one of the saddest things he has ever witnessed in his entire life. He said he would tell the AFC about this moment. 

I have tons of recordings of my son saying things like this. An attorney that was assigned by the court to “represent me”, acted disgusted that I had recordings of my child and I speaking. Making it obvious that he was assigned to control what evidence is submitted and what things were asked during cross examination. The truth is, the constant false accusations of me brainwashing my son was why I recorded our conversations. So again, Dad gets blamed for things the court officials made him do because he didn’t know how else to prove that their accusations were false. This is why I need a lawyer from outside the county who is not affiliated to anyone in the monroe county family court. And this is why my business has been sabotaged for over 3 years. I will have to allow control from an assigned lawyer or represent myself if I can’t get any money. My only option now is to use my time alone at my mom’s house to type these things so that maybe someone somewhere that can help us, will see these things. I took the website down in January after the mothers lawyer told the mother to use a photo album that my son gave his mom for Christmas 30 days prior, as a violation. This resulted in me getting arrested again, but also exposed the OOP as a tactic to obstruct justice and another reason why my son is scared and why I have every reason to want full custody. I fear they will use the website against me to get me arrested again, but at this point, I don’t have many other ways of fighting for my child. 

In 2022, the court gave my son’s mom 9 months to make it look like she wasn’t drinking anymore. Midway through my public defender asked me if I had any recent evidence of her drinking. This left investigation up to me while I couldn’t afford a private investigator because of my business being sabotaged. Meanwhile the mother was being coached into ignoring me and being flirty whenever I ignored her back to make me think there was still a possibility of us moving a family. Then when I tried to talk to the mother or drove by her house on weekend nights a couple of times in a 6 month span. All of these moments were used against me and labeled stalking in her order of protection that she was assisted with as I attempted to hire a lawyer after my son and I were mocked by a man that she refused to tell us the name of. This shows proof of phenomenal assistance for the mother while giving the Dad absolutely none. Then assisting the mother even more by using everything they could to make me look like a criminal. Then assisting her EVEN MORE by coaching her to use the OOP as a tool to mentally abuse me and my son and to wave the document in front of as many people as possible so that everyone thought she was a victim.

A copy n paste from a previously written note:

So the next day, I got the car registered, spoke to CPS who lied to me , then went to the family court to file an OOP on the mother and the bf because of their taunting and provoking tactics. The guy at the courthouse told me I couldn’t do one on the bf but allowed me to get a slot with a judge for the one on the mother. Crazy it turned out that the child’s request for an OOP on his mom was possible while mine for a guy that neither of us know , that is harassing us was not. This means that orders of protection are for family members only and I assume around 99% of them are on men/dads. 

I am the only parent who has proven to be able to provide for him alone. Even if you refuse to believe that the only reason I lost my house was because of my business being sabotaged by the mother’s affiliates to parental alienate me. The mother still lives with her parents. What’s next? Make my son live with her and the child taunting BF? A spineless man that sabotaged my business? The only reason that coward has money is because of me. He’s a parasite, not a provider. The mother's bf is a criminal. He now has the ability to be around my son more than me. 

Illegal evidence was accepted while real evidence has been ignored time and time again. Then the illegal evidence is covered up by a hidden court order.

There was a court order put into effect that appeared to warrant access to private information that was requested by the mother’s lawyer, Faye Vitagliano from Wesley and Clark and Evans Fox in 2022. Meanwhile evidence that the Dad had of child neglect, provoking tactics, illegal hacking, alcoholism and defamation was avoided and denied. The dad would’ve never known about these orders if it weren’t for him going to the courthouse and requesting copies of all files related to both custody cases. 

The child told the AFC that he wanted to be with his Dad in 2022. The AFC told the judge at every hearing that the child wanted to be with both parents 50/50. 

The child told the AFC in 2024 that he wanted to be with his Dad. Instead of lying like her friend did, she admitted to the child saying he wanted me to have full custody, but followed up immediately by stating that he must be brainwashed because he said things word for word that I put in my petition. She didn’t say what these things were. I guess a Dad who really knows his son wasn’t a possibility. This AFC has gone out of her way to make it appear that I was brain washing my son ever since. Then when I was ready to go to trial and prove that I only spoke to my son because of the mind games that these child attorneys played, so that he WASNT brainwashed… the AFC requested a temporary order of me having visitations with my child because of “brainwashing”. No proof was provided and nothing specific was brought up. I was not able to defend myself against the accusation. The judge adjourned trial and ordered the temporary custody to the mother that the kid doesn’t want to be with. To the mother that has been a tool for the child’s attorneys and many other people who coerced her into doing things so that it appeared that there was domestic violence occurring. This was to try to make it look like the order of protection and the illegal spying were done to protect the child. 

The AFC in 2024/2025 has met with the child 5 times. 4 times at school and 1 time when he was with his mom. The AFC said to my mom “I’ve seen the child with his mother, she’s great!” My mom asked her , “ have you seen him with his Dad?” 

The AFC didn’t respond.

Other cases of discrimination:

My step brother lost full custody of his daughter because the mom convinced the daughter that he wasn’t safe around him. 

He doesn’t drink, hack, neglect, taunt, threaten to call the police on anyone in front of the child, allow other people to mock the other parent in front of the child, he didn’t file an order of protection on the other parent, he has no criminal background, his child never caught him lying to her, and he was only trying to get split custody. 

A friend of mine tried to get more time with his son. He had evidence of his son’s mom calling her other son names with cuss words mixed in. 

Her other son, who my friend is not the father of, hangs out with my friend on occasion and never speaks to his mom. Her other son is a grown man who never speaks to this mother now because of how she has treated him. The friend of mine went to court, testified on the first day and then on the second day, before the mom had to go on stand, the case was dismissed. This left my friend with a couple of days every two weeks and a child support payment. The 8 year old son, who is friends with my son is set to be raised by this woman who has proven to hurt her other child so bad that he doesn’t speak to her anymore. 

ONE MORE CRUCIAL POINT...

Last but not least is the fact that i only know of 1 guy in Monroe county who has full custody of his child. THAT HAPPENS TO BE THE ONE WE CALL HYPOCRITE, MY OLD FRIEND WHO PASSED ALONG THE BLUEPRINT OF HACKING AND SUBMITTING ILLEGAL EVIDENCE TO MY SON'S MOM. He most likely brought in help from government officials who at first thought they were helping a victim. I know theres a lot of people who now know that the hacking occurred BEFORE they were presented the false accusations that Hypocrite submitted AFTER he edited the material he submitted. For those that this is true: if you stopped when you found out the truth and never went back to doing anything to my son , my business or me, you will be forgiven and no charges will be pressed on you. BUT proving you stopped and stayed away, could be vital to this scenario being a reality. I keep my word, have faith. It is not my intention to put parent's in jail, especially ones who were manipulated and thought they were doing the right thing.