If family court isn't fair, then its not fair to our children. (Write that down cjc)
If family court isn't fair, then its not fair to our children. (Write that down cjc)
A rule not to speak to the child is used on Dad, so they can brainwash the child into stop telling everyone he wants to be with his Dad.
She tells Son that the trial coming up in a few days wont change much and things will probably stay 50/50.
A day before trial Dad begins a monster lawsuit without a lawyer because of the sabotage and configurations done to his devices that doesn't allow him to get ahold of any legitimate lawyers.
Was it because Dad is suing all the companies and people that helped her and Darcie Bahr? Or is it because the child told her AGAIN that he wanted to be with his Dad?
They showed no proof of brainwashing, and eluded Dad's proof of the real parental alienation that is being done by these people in the family court. Along with CPS and many other so called "children advocates".
to fight for me. This was at the third or fourth visitation. The supervisor appointed by the mom, witnessed all of it. He showed his loyalty by relaying this to the court.
All of a sudden, it's ok to push back the date? Right during summer? This is the best interest of the child? Na, this is for the best interest of criminals. It's because they know they need to give mom more time to continue spoiling the Son in hopes that the child will finally say something different. After a few weeks where it was impossible for Dad to brainwash him due to visitations, Son destroys all of their bs narratives and swings the door wide open for another lawsuit! They need Son to stop saying he wants to be with his Dad so that they have an excuse for all the illegal monitoring, sabotaging and false allegations that they know Dad has proof of. One decent lawyer and a few subpoenas is all it takes boys.
Son wanted to get baptized. Dad was going to do it with him. Granma B caused drama by saying she doesn't think she can allow that without the mom present to help decide. The same mom that has been invited to church a bunch of times and never came. The same Mom who ignored Dad after he asked if he or she could take son to church, after the court changed the schedule to make sure Dad couldn't get the child a psychologist/expert witness to talk to the child because the child's insurance had the mom listed as the primary parent. So the court assists one parent's primary decision making while violating the other parent's primary decision making of religion. They also showed they don't care about the child's religion and showed that they are covering up lies with more lies and don't want an expert witness to speak to the son who will tell them what he told Lorna and Darcie each 5 times, and what he told CPS. " I WANT TO BE WITH MY DAD".
Dad respected granma's wishes while Son was very disappointed. Dad reassured him there will be more opportunities and said it will give them more time to talk to his Mom. Mom followed that up with punking Dad out of his usual friday with son because she had plans. As if she hasnt kidnapped him and doesnt already have him 99% of the time against his will. Dad reported this behavior and told everyone shed be worse and she is really on a special type of ignorant cloud right now. But she's probably being told to be like that. We are praying that is the case, because Son deserves the best and she has shown she can be that. Meanwhile Dad's new lawyer just got the copies of the paperwork. Dad is praying he isn't another Ed or Gilbert. (We must say that gma B, did say over n over agin that she didnt mean to cause problems. Dad believed her. This post is more to articulate a point of how the family court has made everyone's lives. Dad cant talk to Mom, Mom is coached to make coparenting impossible, and to decline or create barriers of healthy moments that she use to occasionally assist before family court and others coerced her into riding the false narratives for future defense arguments of why they did what they did. Fair hearings and ethical action from the beginning would have saved the family and no one would have to fear losing their job or being subject to legal consequences. THIS IS WHY YOUR MOM TAUGHT YOU TO NEVER LIE.)
His business is still struggling from the sabotaging , but recent events suggest a positive change is on the horizon. Dad will now test the district court's integrity, as he takes the Mom out of the petition and goes pro se(because of MC) to fight the real problem that destroyed their family and countless others in MC.
Dad filed on July 8th 2025
After going 7 weeks of only allowing 2 visits per week, Mom asks Dad if he would like Son for an extra afternoon.
Big respect for Mom if she did this even though she was being told to continue making Dad and Son suffer.
How amazing would it be if she made a stand for Son against the people who pretended to protect her? How cool would it be if she chose to help all the future families in our county?
Son needs her to put him first. Thats the advice Darcie, Lorna and Jeff should've given her.
Were they using her to take Dad's business?. Or was she using them?
Change for E
First off, it was good to see the bro Greg Leb Higgins back in town court.
Second off, we have to applaud the Rioxxx Firm and Mr. Swiftly's representation. They are showing that not everyone in Mcounty is corrupt. Our county is a beautiful place and it deserves to be ran by ethical leaders.
Lastly, shout out to the town of Henny for standing up for an innocent man and his child by eliminating the photo album accusation. Dad has already submitted documentation that he will not pursue any legal action against his hometown that he has tremendous pride and love for, because of what Henny has given him and been to him for the majority of his life. So this was BIG BIG for Dad and for all victims of underserved OOPs. The Judge and all of the town of henny's representatives and MC reps that have made sure Dad is getting a fair trial have been noted and we appreciate you all for doing what is right. Note to some of the local police: thank you for wearing that badge correctly again. It has not gone unnoticed.
(Even the town da seemed to stay within their legal boundaries.)
The last 5 visits, son has delayed going with mom. Which was a normal thing before Lorna and jeff gerace with the help of a few other corrupt officials locally, placed an undesevered order of protection on Dad, used it to get him arrested, which scared Son, then took Son's Dad away because he continued to say he wanted to be with his Dad.
Gerace is back to saying that in the tiny 1-3 minute window of pick up drop off, where Dad and Son talk before son leaves his Dad's side where he wants to be; Dad is brainwashinhg him. SORRY DEMOCRAT AND CHRONICLE, your lawyer of the year is actually just a manipulator who actually isnt very good at what he does. I suppose he's good for people who are guilty that are facing people with no lawyer because of illegal actions.
Even though it has already been proven that there is no brainwashing, the childish and spineless Jeff Gerace continues his only narrative and only hope.
HOW DOES JEFFREY GERACE AND LORNA AFFRONTI STILL HAVE LICENSES?
Anyways, Mom comes to pick up Son after Son asked her for more time with Dad for the 5th straight day in a row. She then puts on her usual middle school girl act, by keeping the window up which always symbolizes she isnt haoppy with Dad. Son asks Mom when he can be with his Dad again and she says next Sunday. This is because she isnt happy with something and is back to teaching Dad a lesson again (that never worked before, always made things worse), by dividing Dad and Son as much as possible again. These types of things have happened for years and no one in mornoe county family court cares. A neighbor watched the entire thing happen and even he said how obvious it is that she is the problem.
Mom is most likely mad that Dad isnt giving in to the family court's ridiculous offers for a deal. Dad told them all, majority custody or show him proof that all of the things theyve been through by Mom are because of the court or her dad coercing her. If they show him that proof, he will consider going back to 50/50. Obviously that wont happen. We are talking about people who break laws and sacrifices children's futures for their reputations. But right now... these low life pos are affiliated to many illegal acts (that jeff is too stupid to understand), and actually had the fking nerve to take the only person who always put Son first, away from son and ruin their entire summer! After taking Son's home away from him before that! ARE THERE ANY REAL LEADERS IN OUR COUNTY OR STATE LEFT? IS THERE REALLY NO ONE WHO GIVES A SHIT ABOUT THE CHILD ENOUGH TO STEP TF UP AND HELP?? Where are the good people at who can stand up to this garbage and shut these people down who have full understanding of whats going on but only care about their careers and their reputations. We thought for a moment there, Mom was stepping up for what is right, but of course we were wrong. They are all scared of going to trial because thats where all their lies and BS finally gets exposed and the truth that everyone already knows is finally put on the record. THATS WERE DAD IS TAKING YOU ALL. LAWYER OR NO LAWYER. HE GAVE EVERYONE A CHANCE AND THEY CHOSE TO KEEP BEING POS. NOW WE SEE WHO IS WHO. BS AT TRIAL WILL BE FOLLOWED BY AN APPEAL. THEN DAD MIGHT ACTUALLY GET A JUDGE WHO ISNT CONTROLLED. ITS LIKE THEY WANT TO LOSE THEIR LICENSES.
Purposely waits out doing anything until the 30 day appeal window is up. He tells Dad he doesnt think an appeal will work on a temporary order.
Affronti and Gerace move their new focus to Dad needing a mental health examination. No one brings up brainwashing ever since.
The proof of unauthorized activity by reconsolutionsinc has been recorded. Anyone who interferes with site will be held accountable for poarental alienation and any other legal actions that apply in due time.
Frank Howard tells Dad he can get 50/50 again by showing that he has signed up for a mental health evaluation. When Dad arrives to trial Frank Howard , affronti and gerace turn that into Dad will only get 50/50 once he finishes his mental health evaluation. Since brainwashing doesnt work anymore, the focus switches to their next accusation that everyone claims is the last. They also add thjat after the mental health evaluation is complete that then Dad will be able to file a new motion to open a new case and try to get 50/50 or whatever else. COMPLETE MANIPULATION BY A BUNCH OF PEOPLE HOPING TO GET AWAY WITH ILLEGAL ACTIONS. Half of them that Dad was planning on protecting. All of them which Dad has had evidence on for a long time. How many knives can one back take?
Everyone got invloved in places they had no right. Now they watch from the sidelines as two people who love each other more than anything are ripped apart slowly. Acting like they are supporting Dad but meanwhile allow a bunch of things to happen that should not and even serve as assistants in ways that Dad does not want posted here. Dad will protect the people he loves even though they are failing to do the same. Even though they are taking that for weakness or thinking hes bluffing. He would have allowed so much more to be posted until he realized who is really responsible and what they are trying to provoke. Dad will get the mental health evaluation and he will be back to fight again. IF it even comes down to that. All lies leave avenues for more evidence and even though it amy appear they are winning right now, it is very much the opposite.
Son also tells BG that he wants Dad to take the 50/50 deal as long as he can still fight for full custody later. Meanwhile it has become obvious that the manipulating narcs have successfully made the child ok to be around the criminal Robert. But do not get that confused with WANTING to be around Robert.
Because the one thing that did make sense to Dad was that he was probably going to lose in the Lorna Affronti led court room even though his evidence was ridiculously dominant compared to the illegal and edited "evidence" that the opposing party had. With hearing that son wanted 50/50 for now, he gave in. But then it turned into visitations until Dad's mental health evaluation is complete.
And appeal even though Frank Howard says he cannot. If that is true it will mark one of the most unfair and discriminating moments in family court history while an 8 year old child gets hurt again.
They talk about many things and all sorts of topics. Including how Lorna had another meeting with Son (which we all know must remain confidential until she hears what she wants to hear) and says the son didnt seem to mind that he might have to move to Hilton! WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE!? Dad has stated over n over again that if son was lying to him and if someone showed him evidence of that, he would be willing to work things out. However , NO ONE can provide such evidence. Even though at this point, if the only evidence shown was AFTER THEY FALSELY ACCUSED DAD OF BRAINWASHING AND SEPERATED DAD AND SON FOR MONTHS, then that would only serve as the real brainwashing and the real parental alienation. IF son said he was ok with moving to hilton to be with the criminal, Lorna would've jumped all over it. Intead she said "he didnt seem to mind". The psychological BS from these people is disgusting and they all know they fked up. But instead of admitting it and letting the boys be together they go to the next narrative to blame things on and continue to do whatever they can to get Son use to his new environment where he will be around narcs and selfishness. Meanwhile district court fails to intervene after Dad motions for emergency intervention. Meanwhile BG continues to be a messenger for both sides and dad's mom shows concern for the family tradition camping trip more than concern for her own son.
After breaking birthday , halloween, Christmas, and New Years streaks for Dad and son, Mom is told to break the only one left. She refuses to allow son to be with dad at camping. BG asks if he and dad and son can go for the typicL 3 hours that a normal slap in the face visitation would be. Mom is told to decline. She then offers to take him if Dad doesnt go. This a family vacation tradition for DAD'S FAMILY. So Dad asks BG to take him so Son doesnt miss out on a place he really wanted to go that was always special to him. Mom is told to decline that too. So Dad of course gives in and allows Son to go while Dad remains by himself. Almost like they all think they own Dad and are punishing him now that Mom has full control. But Dad knows that Mom is being controlled and coerced. Jeff and Robert know whats coming and they are hoping to carry out a narrative that they were "protecting" the child, and hoping that will work for them when the time comes for them in the other cases. Dad will no longer allow them to provoke him to say anyhting mean to mom and he will make sure Son knows it wasnt either of his parents. Mom is surrounded by fragile men who have no care for Son whatsoever. Mom is stuck performing these ridiculous actions designed to hopefully create a moment they can all use to get Dad another undeserved arrest or violation of a false accusation filled order of protection that still lingers.
Back to violating Son's religion and Dad's right to have final desicion making on religion. Most likely because the manipulators team (yeah we got that evidence) came up with something REALLY fun to do, so son would say he didnt want to go to church. How many times have all of us heard a kid say they didnt want to go to school? But they still go. School is important. So is religion. If its up to him when he wants to go to church or not, then why is not up to him where he wants to be. Dad hears that Lorna said that Son will have to move to hilton because its not up to an child to decide where they live.SO WHEN DAD SHOWS EVIDENCE OF WHO THESE PEOPLE REALLY ARE IN DISTRICT, IT SHALL SERVE AS COMPLETE PARENTAL ALIENATION, DISCRIMINATION AND CHILD ABUSE! Its only up to child if it aligns with what Lorna, Robert, and Jeffrey's narratives that will mean absolutely nothing at the next level.
Her advise has been to do what they all say . Almost like all of the things Dad and Son have been through are not a big deal. Its been a very hard thing for Dad to deal with when he needs fighters and support that will help him put an end to the insane child neglect and corruption that our families are facing in monroe county.
This makes Dad's mom unable to be a supervised visitor. Even though Lorna Affronti and KDV both enforced visitations with no proof of brainwashing and it has been proven that there is no brainwashing because of their manipulative act. These people in family court are child abusers and we have the proof all over the place in this website. Plus a ton more that will be presented at trial in family court and at trial in civil court. I suppose it makes sense, it is their only move. Little did they know that being honest and having some damn integrity would have been met with grace from Dad. But now, the only way they avoid trial, is giving back EVERYTHING that was taken! Ride it to the end ladies!
Coming soon, you wont want to miss this
Monday, July 28, 2025
RE: WH(THE DAD) visitation
Mr H,
My name is B G and I am one of two assigned visit supervisors approved by both parties and the court to supervise visits between EH(SON) Haley and his father WH(THE DAD) , WH(THE DAD)). There appears to be some misconceptions as to how I supervise the visits, so I want to clear those up. I understand that my responsibility is to be sure that WH(THE DAD) does not engage in any form of "brainwashing" by discussing anything concerning the custody case, the lawyer, Judge, A(THE MOM), the child advocate or anyone in anyway related to the case, and I take that responsibility very seriously. I am amazed and disappointed that NO ONE has ever reached out to me to see how the visits are going.
The way this works is like this: I usually get a text message from A(THE MOM) proposing a day and times for a visit. I relay that info to WH(THE DAD) to be sure he would be available. He has never refused, so I then relay the message to A(THE MOM) and the visit is scheduled.
With only a few exceptions, I usually meet A(THE MOM) and EH(SON) at the Wendy’s restaurant at (A PLACE IN HENROC) I park alongside A’s car. Once Eli enters my vehicle in his mother’s presence, I consider the visit and my responsibility to have started. At the end of the visit, we again meet at Wendy’s. I again park along side A’s car. Once EH(SON) exits my vehicle in view of and under the control of his Mother, I consider the visit and my responsibility to have ended, and A(THE MOM) to be in total control. Of course in reality A(THE MOM) is always in control of the visits. Sometimes WH(THE DAD) accompanies me at the pickup and drop off and sometimes he doesn’t. On one occasion A(THE MOM) did express concern that she didn’t know what was being said between WH(THE DAD) and EH(SON) as they were saying their goodbyes because they did so at the rear of my vehicle. The visit was over, she was present and in control at that point, so all she really had to do was exit her vehicle and go watch and listen. All conversations that I have witnessed between A(THE MOM) and WH(THE DAD) at the pick up and drop off of EH(SON) have been respectful and cordial and concerning future visits, so she should not have been uncomfortable if she did so.. Actually I really don’t want to view the goodbyes between EH(SON) and his Dad because I find them to be extremely heart wrenching. On one occasion that I did witness, Eli gave his Dad a toy and told him to hang onto it so he wouldn’t forget him or forget to keep fighting for him. The embraces between father and son are long and emotional and it isnt at all uncommon for both EH and WH(THE DAD) to be teary eyed at the end. Watching that once or twice was enough for me. That really tugs at my heartstrings.
There were a few weeks when EH wasn’t allowed Sunday visits during which he would be able to attend church. However the past three times A(THE MOM) did allow it and actually dropped EH(SON) off there to meet us.
Over the past several visits it has become increasingly difficult to get EH(SON) to meet his Mom on time because he just wants more time with his Dad. Each time he will call his Mom to ask for more time, and she usually grants it, although EH(SON) somehow manages to extend it further. On one occasion, a few visits ago he just didn’t want to leave, so I called A(THE MOM), explained it to her and suggested that she come and get him, which she did. EH(SON) gave her a hard time because he just wanted more time with his Dad and cousin. I am only a visit supervisor and I am NOT in loco parentis, so I can NOT force the issue, or force EH(SON) to leave to meet his Mom. It is still during a visit, so A(THE MOM) is in control, which in reality she is always.
The visits usually take place at R's house ( The Dad’s mom /E’s grandma) where there is a basketball hoop, a pool, air conditioning, a trampoline, and a device to help EH(SON) hone his football throwing accuracy, as well as other Haley kids and friends to play with. On the rare occasions that WH(THE DAD) and EH(SON) are alone without other Haley kids present, WH(THE DAD) will Coach EH(SON) one on one, to hone his sports skills and teach good sportsmanship, work on teaching EH(SON) how to swim, and just have a good time as father and son playing together. I am present at ALL times that WH(THE DAD) and EH(SON) are together. When they aren’t together, such as when WH(THE DAD) is getting changed for the pool, I stay with EH(SON). On a few occasions WH(THE DAD), EH(SON), other Haley kids and I have taken bike rides together. But again, I am always there to hear and see the interaction between father and son, and WH(THE DAD) has never crossed the line. I believe I have supervised all but 2 visits, and since they almost always take place at his grandma Ruth’s house. It would seem to be common sense that she is added as a visit supervisor. Sometimes.. many of the visits have been on very hot humid days where her house is a preferred location for them to take place.
On the very first visit EH(SON) asked his Dad why I had to be there. WH(THE DAD) deferred the question to me and I explained it was what the court wanted to be sure that he wasn’t told anything that he shouldn’t be told or to influence him in any way. He accepted that and never asked anything related to the case or visits again, and WH(THE DAD) never mentioned anything about the case or any of the participants, so I think the visits have gone very well and without a hitch, and WH(THE DAD) and Eli have truly enjoyed their time together, which to them is really never enough..
I do take offense to anyone insinuating that I do not supervise as the court instructed and intended. I am a retired 21 year veteran Irondequoit Police Officer and I take my responsibilities very seriously. I have spent countless hours sweating on very hot humid days to ensure that the court's wishes and instructions are followed to the letter. Anyone stating otherwise is flat out lying. I understand that A(THE MOM) attorney is paid to advocate for her and he does that very well, even occasionally making totally false, ludicrous statements that he offers absolutely no proof to support. I am not paid to lie, or advocate for anyone. I just tell it like it is and let the chips fall as they may. Too bad everyone doesn’t do the same. But to specifically address the accusation that I’m not monitoring the “goodbyes” between WH(THE DAD) and EH(SON), after the visit has ended. I will use very simple math for the very simple minded individuals making the accusation. WH(THE DAD) gets on average 3 visits per week. If he and EH(SON) take all of three minutes to say goodbye after each visit is over, when their conversation is not monitored by me or A(THE MOM), that allows for a maximum of 9 minutes of potential "brainwashing" time………….per week. Now let me see... there are 24 hours to a day each hour consisting of 60 minutes, amounting to 1,440 minutes per day for 7 days per week for a total of 10,080 minutes. Of that, we have a potential for 9 minutes of WH(THE DAD) brainwashing Eli. That leaves 10,071 minutes when EH(SON) is alone with A(THE MOM) to allow her to brainwash him, not that I think she would, any more than WH(THE DAD) would. Who should be worried here? I am friends with both A(THE MOM) and WH(THE DAD), related to neither, approved by both, so I consider myself to be Switzerland……….. a totally neutral 3rd party. I think both are excellent, responsible parents, and EH(SON) is very fortunate to have them as his parents. EVERYONE involved in this matter should be more concerned with what is best for EH(SON) instead of playing games trying to pit mother against father and father against mother, depriving EH(SON) of ample time with both. That serves no useful purpose and only hurts an 8 year old child. I just have a gut feeling that if A(THE MOM) and WH(THE DAD) were alone in a room free of outside influences, they could agree on a fair settlement in a matter of minutes. It is a shame that they won’t have that opportunity while others have so much to gain by dragging the matter out.
truly yours
B G
After two years of being separated Dad and Mom get back together . Shortly after they become pregnant, Dad’s aunt allows the couple to rent out a home in Henriett. Aunt/landlord and both sides of the family come together to help welcome their newest edition. Dad falls in love with mom even more and for the first time, life makes sense. For two years the family of 3 have many happy moments and look to have a very promising life together for many years to come. dad works long hours while Mom stays with Son. The Parents both feel unappreciated by what they’re doing For the family. Mom begins drinking again and slowly increases the amount and the days. Mom starts part time waitressing at a restaurant. Dad and son go through moments that only Dad will remember clearly because Son was too young and Mom was too drunk. A false narrative is created by Mom to avoid taking responsibility. Dad records things because mom calls dad a liar about what he says happened. These recordings play a very big role in everything. They are used to get help by claiming Dad was bribing yet Dad never showed them to anyone. 3 years later Mom illegally has them deleted but Dad finds them on another device. Dad still never showed anyone but his public defender Who only saw about 5 seconds of one video. Dad tries relentlessly to get mom to understand what is happening and mom tries to change but the effort is short lived. The alcohol Consumption increases and the crazy moments begin to stack up just like they did when dad and mom dated back in 2010. Dad fights to get the woman mom was from 2015-2018 back for the next 6 years. But the New woman makes sure she is Never seen again. (Read more on page “the fight so far”)
Dad‘s need for affection is taken by mom as an annoyance and a chore. Meanwhile mom watches her best friend leave her family and go out partying. Mom gets jealous of her best friend‘s posts and begins missing the party girl lifestyle. The strong and free single mom illusion sets in and the family life is viewed as a ball and chain keeping her from exciting moments with her best friend. When dad and mom finally begin going out together , mom gets a little too close to one of dads friend named Hypocrite. Dad is left picking up the slack while being blamed for everything until mom finally gets her window to jump out of and leave her home and family. Mom leaves while Dad’s truck is broken down and spreads the word that she left because Dad kicked her out. This is not true and the real reason was known by Dad much later but kept a secret to protect mom and keep family a possibility until now. Dad and Son go through heartbreaking Moments that occur every other day. Dad fights to get things back in order financially with The intention of going for full custody after he gets back on his feet. He sees it as the only option after months of zero compromise and zero effort by Mom. (Read more on page “the fight so far”.)
From battling back to being blindsided by covid to landing a $75k project with Calamar construction. To going negative $27k because of Calamar construction’s lack of respect. to battling back again, dad continues to fight for his family. During all of this Dad and son continue to become closer as they are both neglected by mom. mom neglects the two of them subconsciously as she ignores the real issues subconsciously. Son wants Dad more and more as Dad wants his family back more and more. New excuses are made by mom while she gives in to letting Son stay with Dad. Dad starts becoming frustrated and angry at the impossible task of getting his family back. Mom starts getting questioned by others and comes up with unbelievable accusations that mangle Dad’s character unfairly. Mom’s real reason is finally found by Dad who protects this secret while he is blamed for coercion and bribery. Dad’s Sister passes away and makes Dad see life is short. He tries again to make things work with mom but she again makes things impossible. Dad eventually gets mom to hang out with him when he includes hypocrite. Together Mom and Hypocrite do the unthinkable and begin a series of illegal actions against Dad and his business and Son that would remain persistent for the next 3 years ! (Read more on page “ The fight so Far”.)
Dad files for full custody. Dad's business communications are blocked, phone tapped and his network is completely compromised. With the attack on his business, Dad cant afford to keep paying a lawyer and settles with a public defender.
In his petition for full custody he requests for a hair follicle test for mom. Mom gets her hair bleached. The court doesn’t care.
Son tells attorney for the child that he wants to be with Dad majority of the time.
Attorney for child lies about the son's wishes.
CPS denies Dad's request for help.
Judge rules no smoking cigarettes and no alcohol or illegal drugs around the child or anywhere the child will be.
Dad finds some of the deleted evidence. He waits for trial.
Dad's public defender goes on vacation the day of discovery then comes back a day before trial. Dad's request for adjournment so they can prepare is denied. Dad is scared into going into agreements.
Mom gives up Christmas with child 5 weeks later. Mom shows increase in manipulation, child neglect and actually begins to believe her lies. Dad vows to overcome the business hacking by getting commercial contracts. He lands 2 commercial projects set to begin in 2023. They get help from other authorities to monitor Dad after false allegations are presented. Dad finds evidence of wire tapping, stingers and his network cloned. The manipulation becomes nothing but a tactic to provoke Dad into moments that make the additional ears think that he is really is the bad guy. The plan leads to one of the most disturbing stories of pure parental alienation in a way that no one has seen before. If a civil case were to arise for the illegal actions, the defendants would blame their actions on them doing it to protect the child or the mom. When the truth is , they actually did the complete opposite and they were responsible for all of it. Dad continues to lose huge amounts of his life documenting these things to make sure they do not get away with their plan.
Spying and hacking is non stop. The games that dad and son play are reconfigured to make them lose 99/100 times In hopes that dad will lose his temper in front of son. Unlawful surveillance combined with provoking and triggering Dad is suspected as a way to continue moms smear campaign. Dad tries to work things out with mom but she is overwhelmingly impossible. Another thing that is starting to be assumed is a mom more concerned with provoking dad than What’s good for the child. As long as dad looks like the bad guy, nothing else matters.
Dad tells son he cant do it anymore.
Son reminds Dad "Ha*** Boyz don't quit".
Dad calls court and stops in at court to see if the agreement is signed. Every time he is told it wasnt. Later he finds out the agreement was signed 2-3 times but taken back without his knowledge. Dad finally gets a hold of his public defender in May. The pd sends Dad a copy of the rough draft for Dad to assess. Many things are incorrect. No alcohol around the child or where the child will be is changed to no excessive alcohol around the child". Dad requests the changes that need to be made. PD says he will get back to Dad to review the changes. It never happens. Mom shows the signed agreement on Halloween after child refuses to go with her. 2 days before that she was 3 hours late to childs birthday. She doesn't throw a b day party for child and doesn't help Dad arrange one. Son asks Dad to go for full custody a handful of times. Dad tries to get through to Mom but she blames the child's feelings on Dad. Mom hears about Dad and son hanging out with another girl and her kids. Mom brings son to play date with anonymous man.
Finally Dad and Son find out the truth while they both receive mental scars that will last for the rest of their lives. Dad and son find support and encouragement from a counselor. Dad seeks lawyer for full custody help. Dad gets undeserved order of protection. Dad's lawyer advises they take care of the oop before filing for full custody. (Read more on page “ The fight so far”.)
Mom uses the order of protection to torment Dad and Son for 6 months. Dad and son are taunted and harassed on a weekly basis. They continue to go to counseling at Courage to Change. Dad remains strong for son and doesn't fall for mom's provoking tactics. Dad is injured by Christa construction's employee. The spying is more than obvious to even the son. Son catches mom in more lies and increases the moments that he tells his mom how he feels when Dad isnt around. The moments are ignored and chalked off as brainwashing by Dad. Dad is terminated by Christa construction with only 2 weeks left of work and around $75k profit that would've been made if he was allowed to finish. Christa owed Dad's company $38k at the time they terminated his company for unpaid insurance.
Dad encounters the same hacking as he tries to bounce back with residential leads. Dad continues to document the hacking and gets closer to finding help that could provide proof.
Dads lawyer shows up to oop trial unprepared.
Dad begins petition by himself and eventually files for full custody. Son asks for order of protection on mom. Dad files for an order of protection and shows proof of moms OOP having false allegations in it. Dad is denied.
Mom gets engaged to man who mocked Dad and Son days after Dad submits petition for full custody. Believed to be coached and pressured into doing by her dad, hypocrite, her law firm or the first "child's attorney". Dad and cyber security expert find the proof of criminal activity by mom and friends. Dad gets arrested 4 days before the 1st custody hearing because of 1 text message. Dad struggles to get law enforcement to acknowledge proof of the crimes committed against his son and him. Son tells cps and attorney for the child he wants to be with Dad. Mom gets 2 extra sleepover nights instead. Mom and company increase the false narratives as Dad finds more evidence of everyone involved in the illegal acts against him and his son. EVERYTHING WAS DONE TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE THEY DID THE THINGS THEY DID TO PROTECT SON. Yet full custody was only pursued by Dad. (Read more on page “The fight so far”.)
Son and dad lose home. 'Attorney for child' brings the loss of home up at next hearing for the records to show Dad is not fit to provide. Dad finds proof that the 'attorney for the child' was involved in the sabotage. Dad files lawsuit against multiple people and companies.
The very next day; Dad gets temporary visitations,
the ultimate form of child neglect and parental alienation. The 'attorney for the child" blamed everything the child told her on a false allegation of Dad brainwashing. There is a difference between brainwashing and protecting your child from being brainwashed. The attorney for the child was just mad that she couldn't get Son to say something other than he wants to be with his Dad. Meanwhile mom is going hard with the spoiling of the child while she has primary residency. This is good. It will make it that much more obvious when Son tells the dumb ass AFC, AGAIN, that he wants to be with his Dad! (Especially after Son and Dad can only see each other for 6 hours a week with a supervisor, making brainwashing impossible). Dad gets assigned a new lawyer and trial is pushed back 2.5 months! This is believed to be because they all thought Dad would cave (which he almost did and still might) or because they knew the child still wanted to be with Dad after 3 weeks on visitations past. OR maybe they're all hoping Mom can get Dad to violate the undeserved order of protection, so they can arrest him again for violating a false allegation filled and meritless OOP. Son's 3rd grade teacher tells son to tell mom that he did so much better this week, after the first week without Dad. That teacher, has been biased all year long and Son has stated over n over again that he hates school because of her and her only. She was probably shown the OOP. Then got to see CPS come talk to son, the AFC come in FOUR times to talk to son ( who you know told the teacher Dad is a brainwasher) and knew that Son told them everytime he wanted to be with his Dad . Clear sign of hating and judging and of what these false narratives do to children's lives. Now the child is stuck with hackers and manipulators who have been making him miss church to paint another false narrative and to hopefully provoke Dad. Once again showing they are STILL PUTTING THE CHILD SECOND TO THEIR MAIN AGENDA:KILL DAD.
Dad was referring to another ip reported by a cyber security expert that was found on one of the ppl involved in the sabotage
Yyyyeah... so help me
A snack schedule sent to dad that contained spyware . Even the teachers were breaking the law.
