2022
Mom and dad’s old “friend” hack into dad’s stuff and delete his evidence for a probable child custody case in the near future.
Dad goes for full custody , request hair follicle test for mom.
Mom shows up to next hearing with hair bleached.
Attorney for the child lies in court to benefit mom.
Dad finds some of the evidence that was criminally deleted, 3 days before trial on another device.
Dad is scared into going to agreements as it was more than obvious his public defender was sent to make him go to agreements and dad had no reason to believe that he would fight for him after he told dad that the judge didn’t want to see dad’s evidence , the evidence was too old , and that if they went to trial “ someone would win full custody, is it worth it to you “?
Plus dad never got to see or hear about mom’s “ evidence” because his public defender left on vacation the day of discovery and came back 1 day before trial. So Preparing for trial was impossible. Dad asked if could be adjourned and the PD said no.
For months the agreement was signed and reversed while dad couldn’t review any of them. It is thought that was because dad kept calling in to check on it while and they knew the agreement was altered or because the 30 days to appeal was still in countdown.
Late May 2023
Finally dad got in contact with PD. They revised the altered agreement that was written up by mom’s lawyer. Dad stated what he wanted to see changed and PD said he would get those things fixed , then give dad one more chance to review things before dad agrees. Pd also told dad he would get a transcript of the agreement hearing . Neither happened.
(See more details of 2023 on page “the fight so far “)
Christmas Eve 2022
Mom gives up Christmas morning to attend a drinking party .
Son sees another huge truth that he won’t forget as son and dad go to mom’s house to get a card son made for dad’s mom.
(See more details of 2022 on page “the fight so far “)
June 6th 2023
Agreement is signed without dad’s knowledge. The agreement is altered . One key thing being a rule that was “no alcohol or drugs around the child or where the child will be” TO “no excessive alcohol or drugs around the child “.
October 29th 2023
Mom shows up 3 hours late to son’s birthday that she use to attend for breakfast in bed when son woke up.
October 31st
Mom tries to get so to go trick or treating for an hour with her.
Son refuses to go with mom because she hurt him one too many times.
Mom tries to force son to go with her but he doesn’t. Dad is blamed. Mom says it’s court order and says the agreement is finally signed, but only mom was given a copy.
Son requests that dad goes for full custody.
November
Mom doesn’t plan a b day party for son and ignores Dad’s invite to help him throw a b day party for son
November 25th 2023
Son tells dad he went to the strong museum with mom and her friend and his daughter.
Mom tells dad and son later on the phone that he is just a friend.
November 26th
Dad tells mom it would still be nice if son had his mom at his b day party. Mom comes for an hour. Dad quietly tells her that “Mr.anonymous has to go “. Mom says “ok”. Dad says he is serious and mom again says “ok” in a genuine manner.
November
Mom still refuses to say man’s name so dad says he will have him investigated. Mom admits to “ seeing someone” after lying to son or dad for however long they asked her.
December 2nd
Doomsday
Mom dumps son off to dad after making an excuse to drop him when usually dad picks him up. Dad has seen this before and couldn’t take it anymore. Him and son get in their truck to go see if she was once again dropping son off to go out drinking. There they see a white gmc sierra in the driveway. As they drive by, they finally see the truth of who mom is. They’re world is flipped upside down as dreams crash into a million pieces. To make matters worse they are then mocked by the anonymous man saying “byyyeeeeee”. Dad stops , looks back at mom and tells her Monday he will be seeing a lawyer . Then the man and her both say “ byeeeeee”. As they drive home son is whispering in the back seat . Dad asks son what he’s saying. Son tells dad he was praying to Aunt Kari , his cousin mila that passed away and God. Dad in complete shock asks him what he prayed for. Son says “i asked them to please help us “. Dad and son get to the house and dad does everything he can to make son know that they will be ok and that none of it is his fault . Son cries and dad asks him “ if you could say something to your mom right now what would it be”? Son says “ I would ask her why she messed up our family “. Dad says “ then you should tell her that right now”. This was because for the last 5 years mom has blamed everything on dad and dad wanted her to know what she did to his son. Son texted her what he said . Son was ignored. Son still brings up how mom didn’t text him until 23 days later on Christmas . Mom has never spoken to son about this moment.
December 4th
Dad makes child go with him to Mom’s work to try to make peace and make her understand it doesn’t have to be this way.
Son makes it clear that he doesn’t want to speak to Mom. Instead of her speaking to Son about it , she pokes his sides and tries to be cute to get him to smile . She continues this for at least 15 minutes until son finally gives in a little. Mom then takes dad to the side to tell him that they are never getting married, don’t text her, don’t come to her work and then blames dad for what happened on December 2nd. As dad defends himself, she says out loud “ if you’re going to raise your voice in front of my customers you can leave”. Dad recorded this and can prove that he did not raise his voice and that mom was only concerned with the false narrative staying put. She would later use this a false accusation of dad stalking and harassing her.
December 5th
Dad takes child to courage to change counseling. Now with a much more needing of help.
Counselor immediately states it sounds exactly like the behavior of an addict. She advises dad to go for full custody or else nothing will ever change and they will both be victims until he does something to stop it. (The counselor has over 20 years experience with addicts.)
December 7th
Dad goes to a lawyer from icovangelo who says he can’t help because it’s so close to the agreement just being signed.
December 8th
Dad speaks to another lawyer who is willing to meet . That lawyer(Emanuel M.) says the dad has a 50/50 shot at a new petition going through because it’s so close to the agreement. Dad chooses to wait until he gets a few more checks from the Christa project.
December 10th
Dad texts mom out of frustration from his limited ability to file for full custody. and explains his anger towards her and who she has become . He tells her that once he gets his next check, it’s on . He also tells her he knows about something else that she has done and that he will bring it up in court if he has to.
December 15th
Mom files an order of protection with false accusations and texts that she purposely provoked. It is granted with an order to the dad to only communicate with the mom about the child and to not speak to the child about court.
December 19th
Dad receives the OOP. Cops state” don’t let this bother you, the court hands these things out like candy”.
December 20th
Dad tells Emanuel M. about the OOP. Emanuel says they need to take care of the OOP first then go for full custody.
December
Mom asks child if he wants to go to the strong museum and child says yes. While getting in the car and excited, mom then tells child the bf and daughter might come.
Child admitted to being more excited about going to have fun than being upset about the bf going. Child told mom that the bf seemed nice but was referring to the first time they went to the museum.
Dec 2023
Christa goes 9 weeks in a row without paying Dad.
Dad is forced into cashing Javen’s check to survive.
December 25th
Dad and son get two new tv’s from Santa. they’re from Santa. A perfect gift for a man cave coming up soon that the two planned to have in the basement.
Dec 26th and 27th
Son is sick
December 31st
Mom was going to bring son to dad’s family’s New Year’s Eve tradition until she found out it wasn’t her holiday. Dad tells her she is still invited but mom is not interested.
Mom threatens to call the cops on dad. Again, because he messaged her something sad that son said to dad about mom.
(See more details of 2023 on page “the fight so far “)
2024
For all of 2024
Child tells mom he wants to be with his dad. He requests to call dad and is denied. Mom tells child the reason is because the child was mean to her by telling her what he wants.
Other reasons were “your dad is mean to me” and “ not now”.
January
Dad gets ahead on rent . He buys a New York Insulation carpet for the basement as dad and son begin to execute their plans and dreams of when dad finally has his business going again. He uses the rest of his money to pay for material and equipment needed to finish the project he had with Christa construction for $209k.
Jan 5th
Son is sick
January 8th,10th and 11th
Foreman from Christa Mike Sr, has drywall delivered as Dad tries to finish the second to last phase of project.
Mike sr was out to prove dad wrong from the beginning. Constantly harassing and delaying Dad. Dad was so close to not only proving he could handle the work volume by himself, but actually dominate the other trades who had 10 plus men. Dad was 2 weeks in front of the drywall crew and was getting the trades ahead of him mad because he was passing them up. However Christa continued the narrative that dad wasn’t performing fast enough while delaying him on purpose. Yet dad over came the delays and still pulled away from the other trades. As the end was in sight, Christa knew they had to do something to avoid paying dad $75k profit. Mike sr had stacks of drywall placed in every unit dad had to work in.
January 15th
With 3 pcs of insulation left to install in the ceiling to complete the second to last section. Dad reached over a stack of drywall and got his hand caught in a metal bracket . This metal bracket gouged Dad’s finger and injured his wrist . Dad got 8 stitches.
January 16th
Dad returns to the job site because he knew he was so close to finally getting his son and him out of the struggle once and for all. He worked the next 2 weeks with just his left hand and maintained his lead over the drywall company.
February 1st
Dad submits pay application to Christa for $12k. Way under what he was owed so that it couldn’t be disputed and to hopefully allow Christa to expedite the check so dad could make the $3200 insurance payment before the policy cancelled. Dad was 1-2 weeks away from finishing the project which would’ve amounted to around $75k profit.
February 2nd
Insurance canceled
Dad gets alerted by Christa that no one from his company can step foot on site because the liability insurance was cancelled
February 4th
Notice to cure
Dad receives a notice to cure which asks for dad’s plan to fix things that weren’t really a problem and how long it would take dad to finish the project. Dad writes back with a schedule that shows 2 weeks of labor tops. The more realistic scenario would have been 1-1.5 weeks left to finish the project. He explains that the insurance can be reinstated if he can receive his payment.
Dad has a job with stellar roofing lined up for around $3500 profit.
Dad tells Christa he can start working on Christa’s project if he receives confirmation that they will not hold it against him and then he can use this profit to pay the insurance. Or he can finish the stellar job and then pay for the insurance himself. Christa does not reply
February 6th
First hearing is adjourned because Emanuel has conflict in schedule.
February 8th
Christa wrongfully terminates dad’s company while he had barely any money . They claim dad never responded to their email. It is believed that someone on behalf of Christa deleted dad’s email by hacking. The forensics test would prove this if dad could get it
February 9th
February 10th
Dad finds out Christa had someone delete his response email to the notice to cure. Dad gets a lawyer named danish mustafa to help him dispute Christa’s scam. He shows mustafa the proof in which mustafa forwards the proof that the response was delivered and Christa did receive it.
February 23rd
Son is sick
April
First OOP hearing has no agreement. Mom and her lawyer Karen C. request a year extension of the OOP on dad. Trial is set for May 23rd. Dad must undergo the unfair set of rules for another month.
April
Dad’s lease for his truck is up. Ally financial takes 2 payments out of dad’s account leaving him with -$454.
April 15th
RGnE shows up to turn power off. Dad explains his injury and financial problems. The RGnE employee says he will write it down in his notes and tells dad to call RGnE on Monday.
Dad applies for heap and is denied wrongfully
April 21st
Dad submits documents of prior to injury years pay to Nysif thinking the workers comp insurance was going to help.
Dad and sons basement floods and thousands of dollars in damage occurs
May
Dad takes son to baseball practice and games while fixing a flooded basement and trying to get jobs from the compromised business apps.
May 9th
Dad helps someone else who gets their power turned off by RGnE
Dad goes out to Fillmore to insulate a shed for a lady named Jeanette Brighon. Jeanette didn’t have much money so dad gave her a great deal. When he arrives no one is there . Suddenly an RGnE van pulls up to disconnect their power.
Dad decides to leave with 75% of the job done because he didn’t like that no one was home and that Jeanette probably wouldn’t be able to pay . As he goes to leave Jeanette and her husband pull in. Jeanette sadly agrees that dad should probably leave and they will call him once they gave the money. Dad thinks about how he felt when RGnE did that to him and how the lady was trying to move into a shed to cut costs. Plus she would be freezing at night with no heat and no insulation. So dad turns around and starts working again . Jeanette comes out to dad and asks “ what are you doing “? Dad says “ i know how this feels for you and I’m not leaving you like this “, pay me when you can “. Dad knew he probably wouldn’t see a dime but he did it anyways .
Jeanette started crying and gave dad a HUGE hug like they knew each other forever. Two good people falling apart because of unfair circumstances hugging each other as gods children .
Dad never got a call back. He lost out on $550 at a moment he needed money bad . But he still helped someone else along the way .
May 18th
Dad fights through a day of absolute mayhem to get two jobs done that are both an hour away while desperately trying to make it to son’s baseball game and continue his perfect attendance.
He has no choice but to go to one job in Buffalo then come back to son’s game , then go out to Buffalo again for the other job. Son’s game ended 15 minutes early for the 1st time that season. Dad couldn’t reschedule because he had to pay his lawyer to defend him at the OOP. Both customers said they could reschedule but nothing was available for either of them before the OOP.
May 19th
Dad and child are taunted and provoked by mom and bf as they walk in local town Henrietta parade.
May 20th
Dad still has trouble getting evidence for defense to Emanuel M. electronically. It is clear that someone is once again interfering illegally online.So he drives to Emanuel’s office but the office is closed. He calls Emanuel and Emanuel tells him he can slide the folder under Emanuel’s office door.
Proof of many things in the mom’s OOP being lies was in the folder. So was the documented evidence of mom’s threats, manipulation, child neglect and deliberate actions to speak to the dad throughout the 5 months that dad had a no contact rule.
May 21st
Emanuel M. Tells dad he gives their chances of getting the OOP dropped , 90%!
May 23rd
OOP trial date
Emanuel tells dad he should take the deal right when dad arrives at the courthouse. Dad refuses. Mom’s lawyer shows clear anger when Emanuel tells her that they’re still going to trial. Dad, referee and mom come to a deal for extension of no contact, mom can’t use any of her old texts or “evidence” ever again and that the OOP will not limit the dad’s ability to go for full custody.
Dad is puzzled and asks if Emanuel saw the evidence. Emanuel says no and blames it on Dad for not getting it to him. Emanuel forgot that Dad slid the evidence under his door. The real reason Emanuel was so confident is because in normal circumstances, the OOP would’ve been dropped. But this is not normal and there are secrets.
Referee gives dad the idea to use a different device for the phone calls.
May 23rd afternoon
Dad calls CPS after referee advises it as something dad could possibly do.
CPS can’t take a report of the mental abuse the child has suffered lately but files a report on the alcohol abuse that they suffered from back in 2018-2019 era. The thought that CPS might have felt like they were responsible for not doing their job in 2022, seemed plausible.
May 24th
Child says to mom on phone “ you want to put an order of protection on my dad , then I don’t want to talk to you “. Then he hangs up.
May 29th
Mom tells dad that they both need to text each other the 2 weeks that they want son for their vacation time that judge r placed as an order and rule to allow both parents a 2 weeks to do something fun.
May 31st
Mom texts dad the 2 weeks she wants. Meanwhile dad is running out to Buffalo, and desperately trying to get the petition done. Dad was also in the middle of setting up a huge pool for son and fixing up the house and taking down a shed he spent a week on building because landlord didn’t like the shed dad created. He is still trying to get work and has no idea at the moment what weeks he wants. He soon forgets because of everything going on.
June
CPS has interview with the child at school. Child tells them he wants to be with Dad and says everything Dad has been telling people for years.
This includes how mom has treated dad , how dad has tried with mom, how he feels about her bf and her mocking, about mom lying to him many times, about his mom putting an OOP on dad, how his mom misses all of his stuff, how dad makes all of his stuff, how hes never seen husband dad with alcohol, how he has seen alcohol many times at his mom and her parents house, how his mom gave up Christmas , came late to his b day, showed up at the parade to taunt his dad, threatened to call cops on dad, how mom blames dad for everything that he truly feels and things he has said on his own .
June
CPS investigates mom’s house (mom’s parent’s house)
June 17th
CPS comes to dad’s house and states that the fact is “the child wants to be with his Dad”. She also implies that she doesn’t think highly of the child’s mother and the mother’s parents. She also states the mother claimed the dad scared the child into stop playing baseball.
ANOTHER false allegation that he scared son into not playing baseball.
Dad was the one who signed him up . Dad is the one who signs him up for everything and fills in on the days mom can’t.
August- the biggest slap in the face for Dad and Son
August 7th
Mom requests to have son for 3 hrs on dad’s day. Dad says ok but requests that she picks son up 3 hrs later on her day to pick him up. She declines but offers dad 1 hr extra. Dad says “ ok then no deal”.
August 7th
A cybersecurity expert that Dad is working with is contacted by Hypocrite/dad’s old friend. Hypocrite claims he was hacked.
This confirms even more that hypocrite is guilty and that hypocrite is already making excuses in preparation of being exposed. The same cybersecurity expert miraculously contacted by two people from the same town while one of them is clearly guilty does nothing but provide more evidence to support dad’s case.
With only 15 minutes left until son gets picked up by mom, dad tells son he is not waiting another second and that they need to go right now to get more ink so dad can finish printing out the petition.
Dad and son pass mom on the way.
Mom texts dad and dad replies saying they are going to get ink so he can finish the petition and they will be right back.
Mom says “ it could’ve waited, no reason you had to go now”.
Dad says “ actually there is a BIG reason”.
August 14th
Mom takes child to the mall to switch her phone⭐️ and to tell the child she is getting married !
Yes to the man who mocked them. The child replied “ you’re getting married !????”, in disgust. Mom says “ yeah what’s wrong with me getting married”?
To this day child says the mom has not once talked to him about the engagement again or about his obvious signs of displeasure and disappointment. Another huge sign of manipulation here is that they barely know each other. A year of 1-2 days a week is not enough to really know someone. 1-2 days a week is a fairy tale and it makes the time in between of not seeing each other become like the “ honey moon stage “ or “teenage love stage” when they do. That’s if it’s not completely fake. Another great point is that mom never tried once for her family but can rush an engagement while her son doesn’t like the guy because of the moment he represents. This further crushes the dad and child inside because that is exactly how they feel until dad has time to think it through and see how it might all be fake. Even then, the feeling that they were not good enough for one solid effort, but hacking, cheating, manipulating, eavesdropping and provoking with an old friend of the dad’s was .
August 14th
After 3 years of no calls from Google or the dad’s website , dad gets 4 calls from customers on the day mom switches her phones.
August 15th
Mom declines dad’s requests for his vacation weeks out of spite.
Mom allows son to go on vacation with dad’s family and drops son off to dad’s mom.
Prior to this Dad asked mom if he can just keep son and use it as 1 of his vacation weeks for the summer. Mom declines and says that dad needed to send her his 2 weeks back in May, even though the agreement states the two parents are allowed to alter the order if both parties agree. So this serves as nothing more than pettiness and lack of care for the child. Proof of how she is more concerned with hurting dad than giving to her child. Proof that she has no intentions on coparenting and hasn’t changed one bit.
Landlord refuses payment for rent and serves him with a notice to quit Because Dad texted her out of anger when landlord kept coming at him about pay after she knew he was injured and lost a lot of money and kept drivibg by the house to tell him to change things after he was close to being done and after he spent days on something. It was clear she just wanted him gone so she could sell it.
August 23rd
A text from mom to dad shows that mom has an iPhone now. After having an android for years. ⭐️
This is now believed to be a move made by mom because what should happen when the police get a professional pen test is they seize the criminals phone to run a forensics on it.
Dad calls CPS to see what’s going on with the investigation and when he will get the report.
August
Truck repossessed while Dad and child continue working on putting up a new pool.
Dad asks child to get something out of the truck. Child says the truck is gone. Sure enough… the truck was repossessed even though the finance company, ally financial, told dad he has time to try to get a dealership to buy it.
Dad calls his friend 86 to ask for the Camaro temporarily because of what just happened. 86 let’s dad get the Camaro back . REAL BROTHER RIGHT THERE
August 25th
Dad brings son’s Nintendo switch to mom and gets son’s phone back that she kept off while holding until dad found son’s Nintendo switch that her parents bought him. Dad searched the entire house until he found it in the basement so that he could still speak to his son.
August 27th
Son tells dad about Robin walking in at trampoline park
Son said he was playing soccer at the trampoline park while his mom watched. Then all of a sudden Robin walked in and sat down next to mom. Son said Robin barely said anything to son the entire time and that it was very uncomfortable for him. This made dad think they were doing it on purpose to provoke dad because they knew son would tell him or they were doing it on purpose to get some pictures to make it look like son was completely cool with Robin.
Dad tells son he can’t do anything because of the OOP. Later dad says he might be able to put an OOP on Robin. Dad asks if he wants him to . Son says “ yes , and one on my mom too”.
This was not the first time son said this. He told dad to try to put one on her a few times because of his mom threatening to call the cops on his dad for no good reason.
August 27th
Dad lays out a plan for the next day that involves getting the Camaro registered, serving the petition and attempting the OOP before 2pm when mom comes to get son
August 28th early morning
Mom was 30 minutes late to the meet the teacher appt. Son and Dad saw her pulling in as they were leaving.
Dad and son go to the dmv to get the Camaro registered but dad forgot to bring the title
So because son REALLY wanted dad to put an OOP on his mom and time was running out before mom came to get son, dad chooses to go to print out copies needed to serve mom the petition.
August 28th around noon
So because son REALLY wanted dad to put an OOP on his mom and time was running out before mom came to get son, dad chooses to go to print out copies of the petition and then go to the sheriffs office downtown to have them serve mom.
The printing took forever and made them rush.
The copies got mixed up and dad frantically tried to get them in order as he knows that mom’s pick up time is in 30 minutes. Dad texts mom to tell her they will be late. As dad sorts out the papers, mom texts dad and threatens to call the cops AGAIN!
Son sees the text message and reads it to dad. This has always scared son because he doesn’t want anything to happen to his dad.
Dad and son race back. Dad tells son that after he drops him to his mom he will go back out and try to put the OOP on the bf for him. Son reminds dad , “ ok and please don’t forget my mom “.
On the way back dad gets pulled over by a state trooper.
The trooper needs updated insurance.
Dad calls his friend 86 who happens to be around the corner and brings a screenshot of the insurance. But it’s expired so 86 calls his wife to get the updated policy sent to him.
Meanwhile dad calls mom to tell them they are 3 minutes away.
Mom says she will come and get son.
As they wait for mom and the updated policy, someone parks about 100 years away and takes a photo of dad on one knee talking to son who is depressed that they didn’t get to the OOP. Son tells dad he REALLY doesn’t want to go with mom. Dad reassures him that it won’t be long and to stay strong . They look back to see if the lady taking a photo was still there and she was gone.
Mom shows up and son gives dad one more big hug, he says to dad “ please don’t forget about the order of protection on my mom”. Then says their usual departure statement “ lionheart level lionheart way “? Dad replied with “all day everyday “.
As son got in mom’s car , dad was in shock by how desperate son was for such a thing and knew he had to try.
The trooper finally got the insurance and told dad to immediately go back to the dmv to get things sorted and that the tickets should get tossed if he does.
After Dad got out of the dmv , there was no time to get back downtown and file an order of protection and he was still wasn’t sure if it would work so he called 911 to get advice.
Officer Gorman heard dad speak about all the times that mom tried to get dad arrested with her OOP and how it was affecting his son. Gorman suggested that in this case, he probably should try to put an OOP on mom.
August 29th
Dad returns to the dmv with the documents he needed to finally get everything settled. While in line, CPS finally calls back and makes dad walk outside. The lady from cps lies to Dad that they had a 2nd interview w the child.
She says that the child said the complete opposite of what he said to them at the first interview they had at his school. (this happens again by another child advocate in October.)
Dad files for an OOP against mom on behalf of him and the child.
He requests That she doesn’t have robin around to taunt son or to provoke Dad and that she doesn’t use the OOP to threaten him in front of son. He explains that she is using it to bully him and to try to get him to violate so she can have him arrested. He also brought proof that many things in her OOP were false accusations. The judge refused to view them and denied his request for an OOP. He actually needed protection and was denied . His son needed protection and was denied.
Later dad asked son why he didn’t tell him he had a 2nd interview with CPS. Son said he didn’t. He immediately and convincingly said that they have to be lying to Dad.
August 31st
Dad submits two discrimination reports
August 31st JCs party
Dad asked mom if son could come to JCs party. Mom brought son to dad’s friend’s labor day party on Saturday. She was parked at the top of the hill. As dad walked up , son got out and ran down the hill to dad and leaped into dad’s arms in pure joy. Dad looked at mom from 20’ ft away as she looked back. They stared at each other for about 5 seconds as dad held son tight. Dad wanted to invite her down to the party but already did in text and the fear of her rejecting him verbally made him mute. But her stare made dad want to think she was still in love with him. Made dad want to think she was silently telling him she was trapped and to please save her. But dad felt this before and all his efforts were denied. He knew the denial would trigger him and then she’d use that as a way to make him look bad. So dad turned to walk towards the party and looked back, she put the car in drive and then looked back too. Then they repeated everything again right before the face he wanted to kiss for the rest of his days disappeared behind a bush. (For more on this moment : Look out for “Dad’s journal” coming soon to fightforelias.com)
September 11th
Dad files a $38k mechanics lien against Christa. As of 12/7/24; still hasn't received a dime.
September- family court begins, proof of criminal activity is found, dad gets arrested
September 14th
Dad gets proof of felonies, but Dad gets arrested for 1 text message
Dad gets proof of felonies by hypocrite, mom, and what seems to be one of hypocrite’s parents and one of mom’s parents.
Dad gets a professional cyber security pen test and vulnerability report that has proof of hypocrite and mom hacking into his stuff. Before Dad calls the cops , he tries to give mom a chance by talking to her about it. She ignores him and Dad texts her that she’s a psycho because dad couldn’t believe she was going to force him to call the cops. Before Dad could get the courage to call the cops on the woman he loved and his son’s mother. Mom calls the cops and has Dad arrested for a violation of the OOP.
September 18th
Child custody. Round 2, hearing 1.
The first court date the attorney for the child admits to the child telling her that he doesn't want to be with mom and wants to be with dad.
The afc met with son at school without either parent knowing to get genuine information without either parent being able to prep the child.
Son lists off numerous reasons why he wants to be with dad. Son told Dad about this and said he asked the afc to please tell the judge what he really said and wants. This was because the afc in 2022 lied about what the child wanted and then CPS lied.
The afc mentions that son said a couple things that were word for word what dad said in his petition. To a bias thinker this is automatically brainwashing. But this is actually a testimony to how close dad and son are and how well dad knows son. It makes sense if you think about these two going through this for 5 years! The conversations between dad and son are normal because they both go through the trauma everyday and see things that no one else sees or pays attention too.
Dad tries to explain to the court that his child and him talk about a lot of stuff but that dad doesn’t do it to hurt mom. He says that half of the time son brings the conversation up or it’s right after mom just did something obvious and deliberate to one of them that son was already thinking or feeling.
Judge Christine interrupts dad and says he basically just admitted to violating his order of protection .
Dad later wrote how 1. he never said when they spoke so it could have been referring to before the OOP was served. 2. He wasn’t ordered that he couldn’t talk at all about the mother, he was ordered not to make derogatory comments about the mother. 3. Everything he says to the child is the truth. He doesn’t make things up. And he never spoke about these truths until after mom started telling son that the reason she doesn’t try to work things out for their family is because dad is mean to her! THIS is actually the only brainwashing going on because it is NOT TRUE. And it made son think twice about his dad, forcing dad to defend himself by accurately educating son. Dad has never lied to son, mom has lied multiple times. Mom has manipulated almost everyone around them, but she can’t manipulate Son because son has seen what dad has seen and what everyone else has not. Son has caught mom in lies. And now the real reason why mom left should be pretty obvious. If it isn’t … look at the 2021 timeline in December.
Judge Christine orders an additional order that dad refrains from speaking to child but doesn’t implement more specifics.
This was scary to Dad because it showed the court is a little too helpful with this OOP. It appears to be in the courts best interest because Dad does have a good case for discrimination and the court knows it. But instead of the court seeing that dad is only bringing it up to hopefully avoid it happening again, the court, just like mom, finds a reason to justify their actions instead of just simply being better to dad and son. In turn dad is put in a spot where If dad slips up one time under these unfair rules that are almost made to be impossible because he has to be around the person with the OOP on him frequently, then dad gets arrested and the court and mom looked vindicated.
Another reason for the extreme and over the top additional order could be that mom’s lawyer also violated order by putting in their cross petition things that was ordered not to be brought up ever again. At the OOP on May 23rd, the deal was that dad gets another year of no contact while mom agrees that all prior “evidence” can no longer be used. Another rule was that the OOP wouldn’t restrict dad’s ability in going for full custody. So maybe, the judge knew this, so just in case, put her own order on dad to make sure the narrative continues.
Depending on when exactly mom’s lawyer submitted the petition to the judge who admitted in the hearing she had reviewed, there’s good chance that they violated order before dad did. Yet dad faces criminal charges.
Could it be that everyone knows mom is guilty of crimes, which would probably prove discrimination and if those crimes resulted in the court accepting illegal evidence then the court is just as guilty ? Could it be that this is why the OOP was assisted while the crimes were ignored? Could it be that pushing dad into an almost impossible situation was a plan to get dad to have a title of being a criminal BEFORE mom got one and the proof came out, so that no one cares to help because everyone thinks dad deserved all of it ?
Dad sent the proof of the hacking to the afc before the hearing and requested the afc gets it to the judge. No response and no indication that the judge saw it.
October
Dad’s stepbrother starts a business and signs up for Angi ads.
To stay off the grid and avoid the hacking/blocking dad has endured, dad incorporates his system with a new phone and number.
Dad calls the local town court to find out when his OOP hearing is
because he is overwhelmed with documents, petitions, finding work, getting evidence, trying to get someone to acknowledge the evidence, trying to save his house, while trying to fight with a completely shattered heart from moms latest action that told dad and son they weren’t worth 1 moment of effort while she forced an engagement to the man who mocked them. Dad was told Thursday October 10th, and that he already missed the hearing for the ticket he got from the trooper in late August. The lady on the phone placed his ticket to be addressed with his court hearing for the OOP violation.
October 9th
AFC lies to Dad and accuses dad of parental alienation in teams conference.
She states that she read dad’s entire petition but then later said she didn’t know dad had an OOP on him. The OOP was the ultimate example of who mom became and how mom treated dad and son. Because of this , the OOP was everywhere in the petition. She defended mom about mom missing so many events and attacked dad for saying that he heated his son tell the AFC in 2022 that he wanted to be with his dad 5 days and his mom 2. Once dad told her that son requested him to go for full custody over a year ago while dad was still trying to work things out w mom for son… the afc stopped accusing. She gave dad advice on how to get help with the proof he had that was being ignored everywhere else. She also said that she had a 2nd interview with the child and wanted dad to know that if there are things that son wanted to stay confidential between her and son, they would. She said son said he didn’t like how mom and dad argued. So she asked him if he would like the schedule to be 1 week w mom and 1 week w dad. She didn’t say what son’s response was, and since dad has an order to not speak to son, he either can’t or he can’t say what son told him because then the court would smack him with a violation. A perfect compliment to judge Christine’s addition protective layer on the order to not speak to son. A masterful scheme to be able to say that son is only saying things to make dad happy. This would give reason for every unfair order which would also take away the factor of discrimination. But the evidence of neglect , taunting, criminal activity and trauma that dad had NOTHING to do with is still there no matter what they accuse dad of and no matter how many words they put in son’s mouth. There is tons of evidence that the court doesn’t know of yet that proves son really wants to be with dad. It will be at trial IF dad can make it to trial for custody.
October 10th
Dad goes to his hearing and finds out the real date was Tuesday october 8th.
This could be coincidence and an honest mistake by the court contact or by dad but dad immediately wrote it down on his calendar and even told the afc about it the day before in which she said “ how come I didn’t know you had an OOP on you , and HOW DOES THE CHILD know about it !??? 🙄 implying that the child knew because dad was being abusive or something . Definitely not ever a thought that maybe it was because he tried to go for full custody of his son and then had to explain why he had to wait because someone else was coached into stringing first with an OOP .
October
Angi charges $200 less per month for step brother and the first 5 leads are all within the county. About 4 out of the first 5 leads were successfully contacted. The two land one job after a raised price strategy didn’t work.
October
Dad’s new phone suddenly has a Lenovo app and a Verizon app installed. Neither company was affiliated to his phone.
The next 8-10 leads are ghosts. Neither dad nor stepbrother can get ahold of any of the leads.
October
Another family member named Bernard lets dad borrow $500 for Microsoft ads.
The app is immediately compromised and dad gets zero calls for the next two months. Microsoft confirms the hacking but no further updates are made.
October
November 14th
Dad goes to OOP violation hearing and pleads not guilty . Dad gets placed on pre trial services with more rules .The DA states dad’s actions were concerning as they might harm the child. Dad couldn’t believe someone would say something like that about him. Dad immediately goes back to blocking mom and vows to not speak to her until the OOP is done.
Judge Christine changes the schedule to make it so dad didn’t have more nights and everything was even Steven.
Now son suffers more because he misses out on church 2 times a month and seeing the Buffalo bills game with dad 2 times a month. Son hates the schedule.
November to now
Dad leaves mom blocked and misses 3 more things of son’s because of it. After months of son requesting to call dad or see his dad when he was with mom, Mom finally lets son call dad because she knew dad had her blocked.
October to December is just as crazy and is soon to come.
December 2nd 2024
Landlord takes dad to court to evict him on a very fitting day . The one year anniversary of the saddest night dad and son ever experienced !
December 9th 2024
OOP trial
MUCH MORE TO COME. Please check back soon!
After two years of being separated Dad and Mom get back together . Shortly after they become pregnant, Dad’s aunt allows the couple to rent out a home in Henriett. Aunt/landlord and both sides of the family come together to help welcome their newest edition. Dad falls in love with mom even more and for the first time, life makes sense. For two years the family of 3 have many happy moments and look to have a very promising life together for many years to come. dad works long hours while Mom stays with Son. The Parents both feel unappreciated by what they’re doing For the family. Mom begins drinking again and slowly increases the amount and the days. Mom starts part time waitressing at a pepermints. Dad and son go through moments that only Dad will remember clearly because Son was too young and Mom was too drunk. A false narrative is created by Mom to avoid taking responsibility. Dad records things because mom calls dad a liar about what he says happened. These recordings play a very big role in everything. They are used to get help by claiming Dad was bribing yet Dad never showed them to anyone. 3 years later Mom illegally has them deleted but Dad finds them on another device. Dad still never showed anyone but his public defender Who only saw about 5 seconds of one video. Dad tries relentlessly to get mom to understand what is happening and mom tries to change but the effort is short lived. The alcohol Consumption increases and the crazy moments begin to stack up just like they did when dad and mom dated back in 2010. Dad fights to get the woman mom was from 2015-2018 back for the next 6 years. But the New woman makes sure she is Never seen again. (Read more on page “the fight so far”)
Dad‘s need for affection is taken by mom as an annoyance and a chore. Meanwhile mom watches her best friend leave her family and go out partying. Mom gets jealous of her best friend‘s posts and begins missing the party girl lifestyle. The strong and free single mom illusion sets in and the family life is viewed as a ball and chain keeping her from exciting moments with her best friend. When dad and mom finally begin going out together , mom gets a little too close to one of dads friend named Hypocrite. Dad is left picking up the slack while being blamed for everything until mom finally gets her window to jump out of and leave her home and family. Mom leaves while Dad’s truck is broken down and spreads the word that she left because Dad kicked her out. This is not true and the real reason was known by Dad much later but kept a secret to protect mom and keep family a possibility until now. Dad and Son go through heartbreaking Moments that occur every other day. Dad fights to get things back in order financially with The intention of going for full custody after he gets back on his feet. He sees it as the only option after months of zero compromise and zero effort by Mom. (Read more on page “the fight so far”.)
From battling back to being blindsided by covid to landing a $75k project with Calamar construction. To going negative $27k because of Calamar construction’s lack of respect. to battling back again, dad continues to fight for his family. During all of this Dad and son continue to become closer as they are both neglected by mom. mom neglects the two of them subconsciously as she ignores the real issues subconsciously. Son wants Dad more and more as Dad wants his family back more and more. New excuses are made by mom while she gives in to letting Son stay with Dad. Dad starts becoming frustrated and angry at the impossible task of getting his family back. Mom starts getting questioned by others and comes up with unbelievable accusations that mangle Dad’s character unfairly. Mom’s real reason is finally found by Dad who protects this secret while he is blamed for coercion and bribery. Dad’s Sister passes away and makes Dad see life is short. He tries again to make things work with mom but she again makes things impossible. Dad eventually gets mom to hang out with him when he includes hypocrite. Together Mom and Hypocrite do the unthinkable and begin a series of illegal actions against Dad and his business and Son that would remain persistent for the next 3 years ! (Read more on page “ The fight so Far”.)
Dad files for full custody. Dad's business communications are blocked, phone tapped and his network is completely compromised. With the attack on his business, Dad cant afford to keep paying a lawyer and settles with a public defender.
In his petition for full custody he requests for a hair follicle test for mom. Mom gets her hair bleached. The court doesn’t care.
Son tells attorney for the child that he wants to be with Dad majority of the time.
Attorney for child lies about the son's wishes.
CPS denies Dad's request for help.
Judge rules no smoking cigarettes and no alcohol or illegal drugs around the child or anywhere the child will be.
Dad finds some of the deleted evidence. He waits for trial.
Dad's public defender goes on vacation the day of discovery then comes back a day before trial. Dad's request for adjournment so they can prepare is denied. Dad is scared into going into agreements.
Mom gives up Christmas with child 5 weeks later. Mom shows increase in manipulation, child neglect and actually begins to believe her lies. Dad vows to overcome the business hacking by getting commercial contracts. He lands 2 commercial projects set to begin in 2023.
Spying and hacking is non stop. The games that dad and son play are reconfigured to make them lose 99/100 times In hopes that dad will lose his temper in front of son Unlawful surveillance combined with provoking and triggering Dad is suspected as a way to continue moms smear campaig. Dad tries to work things out with mom but she is overwhelmingly impossible. Another thing that is starting to be assumed as a mom more concerned with provoking dad than What’s good for the child. As long as dad looks like the bad guy, nithing else matters.
Dad tells son he cant do it anymore.
Son reminds Dad "Ha*** Boyz don't quit".
Dad calls court and stops in at court to see if the agreement is signed. Every time he is told it wasnt. Later he finds out the agreement was signed 2-3 times but taken back without his knowledge. Dad finally gets a hold of his public defender in May. The pd sends Dad a copy of the rough draft for Dad to assess. Many things are incorrect. No alcohol around the child or where the child will be is changed to no excessive alcohol around the child". Dad requests the changes that need to be made. PD says he will get back to Dad to review the changes. It never happens. Mom shows the signed agreement on Halloween after child refuses to go with her. 2 days before that she was 3 hours late to childs birthday. She doesn't throw a b day party for child and doesn't help Dad arrange one. Son asks Dad to go for full custody a handful of times. Dad tries to get through to Mom but she blames the child's feelings on Dad. Mom hears about Dad and son hanging out with another girl and her kids. Mom brings son to play date with anonymous man.
Finally Dad and Son find out the truth while they both receive mental scars that will last for the rest of their lives. Dad and son find support and encouragement from a counselor. Dad seeks lawyer for full custody help. Dad gets undeserved order of protection. Dad's lawyer advises they take care of the oop before filing for full custody. (Read more on page “ The fight so far”.)
Mom uses the order of protection to torment Dad and Son for 6 months. Dad and son are taunted and harassed on a weekly basis. They continue to go to counseling at Courage to Change. Dad remains strong for son and doesn't fall for mom's provoking tactics. Dad is injured by Christa construction's employee. The spying is more than obvioua to even the son. Dad is terminated by Christa construction with only 2 weeks left of work and around $75k profit that would've been made if he was allowed to finish.
Dad encounters the same hacking as he tries to bounce back with residential leads. Dad continues to document the hacking and gets closer to finding help that could provide proof.
Dads lawyer shows up to oop trial unprepared.
Dad begins petition by himself and eventually files for full custody. Son asks for order of protection on mom. Dad files for an order of protection and shows proof of moms oop having false allegations in it. Dad is denied.
Mom gets engaged to man who mocked Dad and Son. Dad and cyber security expert find the proof of criminal activity by mom and friends. Dad gets arrested 4 days before the 1st custody hearing because of 1 text message. Dad struggles to get law enforcement to acknowledge proof of the crimes committed against his son and him. Son tells cps and attorney for the child he wants to be with Dad. Mom gets 2 extra sleepover nights instead.(Read more on page “The fight so far”.)
